Bye-Bye Bachelorhood

He Said:

Up here in the extraordinary land of Bhutan, nestled in the Himalayas, Diana Chen married me with the blessings of the head monk at the Dechen Phodrang monastery in Thimpu.  Yes, a real-life beautiful girl married me!  Even I’m having a tough time believing that. 

After learning more about Bhutan, Di and I made the decision to get married there a few weeks before we went.  We asked the tour company to organize a small ceremony for us, which they graciously did.  Though Bhutan doesn’t have much of a wedding industry (none in fact, catered to foreigners) they were able to provide a wedding bouquet freshly cut from someone’s yard that morning.  We could tell it was fresh because there were still small caterpillars crawling inside the flower petals.  They also took us to a shop the night before to get us fitted in traditional Bhutanese wear.  The ladies all got a Kira each and Didi and I bought a Goh.  Susan and Lorea decided to buy identical outfits to fill the bridesmaid role, while Didi looked pretty sweet in his Goh combined with my Converse kicks.  I had to borrow the dress shoes he brought instead, since the Bhutanese guys wear a Goh with black leather shoes at formal events.  Di looked graceful, elegant and absolutely beautiful in her Bhutanese Kira.  After we got all prettied up, we headed around town to visit a couple of auspicious sites for good luck before our ceremony.  One was a large stupa that we had to walk around 3 times in a clockwise direction, and another was an old monastery on top of the hill overlooking Thimpu where we were to ask for blessings.  We then made it to the monastery where we got married amid monks chanting and playing music. The chanting was monotonous and the music was quite basic but put altogether with the monastery and monks it was a surreal experience and I don’t think we could have picked a better place to do it on this trip.

After letting everything settle in we took a few pics with the monks and our guests (who included the people from the tour company).  Didi then got us to change into the western clothes that he brought for us.  Di was stunningly gorgeous in her white dress!  Seeing her was breathtaking, and no I’m not exaggerating.  We took pics around the monastery with the young monks all running around.  Some of the teenage monks were playing volleyball so I decided to join in with them.  Even Di came to serve a couple of times in her wedding dress.  Pretty soon we had the whole place surrounding us watching the game and laughing.  I never thought I’d be playing volleyball in a suit with a team of monks in a Bhutanese monastery, but I’m super happy I did.  After that we headed to the centre of Thimpu to take a few pictures as well.  It was quite a sight, for all the Bhutanese!  Our guide told us that everyone watching on the street had probably never seen a girl in a white wedding dress before.  A large crowd of onlookers quickly amassed around us, taking pictures with their cell phone cameras.  When we wanted to take shots on the road, the traffic cops helped us out.  When we wanted to take shots in people’s cars or from peoples windows, they quickly let us in.  Everyone was extremely accommodating.  As I’ve said before in this blog, I’m no model; uncomfortable is an understatement of how I felt with the crowds watching us and Didi shooting.  But the pics turned out great, especially if you focus more on Di’s face and less on mine.  Thanks Didi (and his assistants for the day Susan, Lorea, and our guide Dhendup)!

I’m extremely grateful to Bhutan, its monks, and its people for giving us the wonderful opportunity to get married in a place that felt perfect for us.  The people at Blue Poppy travel and our guide Dhendup (dhendupnill84@hotmail.com) did a remarkable job.  We were originally planning to do a wedding with just the 2 of us somewhere on this trip, but having Didi, Susan and Lorea join was a fantastic surprise.

Di and I have had an incredible journey for the past 8 months, and now we’ll have the rest of our live to continue the fun.  Rock On!

Oh I forgot to add that technically we aren’t married yet by Canadian law as they don’t really recognize the marriage certificate given by the Bhutanese monastery.  We’ll still have to register back home, so you know what that means?  Bachelor paaarrrttaay!